About Jim

In 2001 I built my online group called Friends Of Jim Parker. I was talking about everything that got me turned on. Spanking being a big part of it, but also, masculinity and male bonding. I love seeing a guy in his underwear, classic white briefs do it for me in a big way. Growing up, every guy I knew wore briefs. My dad, my brother, my friends, all the guys in gym class, men I saw changing at the gym, most of the guys on TV and in movies. Tighty-whities felt normal and masculine to me, and I'm all about the regular guy next door type, the guy with the wedding band, the guy in the hardware store, the guy at the sports bar.

The gym also became a place of massive interest for me. I found a place where married suburban men, and regular guys would gather, strip naked, take showers and we could all just sit around naked in the shower, hot tub, and sauna talking to one another, looking at one another and it was totally acceptable. I'd see a man's eyes go down to my crotch then back up, I'd do it back, but we never broke the flow of the conversation. One of us would scratch himself or give it a good adjustment as we were talking, then the other would do it back. it was like a secret, a pact, or a code between men. We'd hold our towels instead of wear them, sometimes if we did have a towel wrapped around us, and we got into a conversation, we'd make sure to unwrap it mid conversation as if we were just getting it secured, yet we just exposed ourself to the other guy. A moment or so later the other guy would return the favor.